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Prepare Your Family for Your Deployment

by Josh Hilborn
Military Network Columnist

One of the hardest situations a military family can face is the deployment of a spouse or parent. It's a growing problem. By 2001, close to 56 percent of Army soldiers were married, and the average military family had two children. The war in Iraq means a massive deployment of US troops, and many serve more than once. The US Government has spent millions of dollars creating resources and support for their families. Here are some things you can do to prepare yours.

Prepare Your Family Financially for Your Deployment

During the deployment of a spouse or loved one, finances--or lack thereof--can pose one of the most difficult challenges for a military family. Make sure you have a good plan in place for managing your bills. Set up a budget, and make certain that your spouse has the power of attorney--he or she may need access bank accounts or other sensitive records. You may also want to review your insurance policies. Although, at this point, you probably don't want to think about the possibility of not returning, you should keep in mind that many insurance companies will not cover combat-related death. There are, however, a number of companies who specialize in insuring members of the armed forces.

Facing Emotional Challenges

The anxiety and anticipation of your upcoming deployment are the hardest parts of preparing to leave. This major change to your family life will not only affect you, but also your spouse and especially your children. Deployment typically lasts six months to a year, so spend as much time with your family as you can. Even time spent on simple daily activities can help prepare the whole family for your deployment.

Always make sure your children understand that you will return. Your deployment will be hard for them, especially if they are young. To ensure that family life will stay as normal as possible in your absence, have set rules for while you are away. This will make it easier for your family to readjust when your deployment ends.

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About the Author
Josh Hilborn is a freelance writer in Reno, NV. He served in the United States Army for several years as a Wheeled Vehicle Mechanic, stationed in Babenhausen, Germany.

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